John Donald "JD" Byers

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John Donald “JD” Byers of Great Falls, Virginia died March 17, 2019 of an accidental overdose of prescription drugs and alcohol. He was 28 years old. John spent much of his life overseas as part of a Foreign Service family that had served in Israel, Pakistan, South Korea and Ukraine, which made him a student of global affairs. He had great dreams for what he would accomplish using computer-human interactions and augmented reality to help people learn. At the time of his death, he was mapping plans to return to college to bolster his degree in business from Virginia Commonwealth University (VCU) in Richmond with studies in imaging science and quantum computing. John had an insatiable curiosity about how the brain worked and read broadly on science, philosophy and leadership in the search for meaning, direction and peace in his life. John’s passion was ice hockey which he played growing up in South Korea and Ukraine as well as for teams in Reston, Ashburn, at Langley High School, and at VCU. He had an infectious smile and would light up any room he entered, sharing hugs with any and all. He loved the beach, fresh falling snow, “authentic” rap music, and Christmas lights all year long. He loved his family and his friends, and they loved him. He is missed by his parents, Brent and Theresa Byers, his sister, Catherine, his grandmother, a host of aunts, uncles and cousins, and Bogwon the dog. John will finally find peace in the arms of God.

The family asks that in lieu of flowers anyone wishing to honor John make a donation in his name at https://www.shatterproof.org/memorial/john-byers-4. Shatterproof is national non-profit organization that is leading a collaborative effort to align addiction treatment with effective, proven research.

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  1. I’m sorry for your loss. Cherish the memories of times spent together and may God’s promise of seeing your loved one again give you comfort. John 5:28,29.

  2. I’m sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one. When someone we love dies, it’s natural to want to see that person again. God promises us that He will comfort us in our trials if we go to him in prayer. 2 Corinthians 1:3 calls him the God of all comfort. I’d like to share with y’all this link that shows 12 steps on coping with grief that is good for sharing. I have personally found this very comforting and I hope y’all do as well. https://www.jw.org/finder?wtlocale=E&docid=102018086&srcid=share

  3. Terri, Lisa Polyak reached out to tell me of your son’s passing. I am so deeply sorry about this tragic news and know there is nothing I can say to diminish the weight of your grief. Please know that I send you every ounce of love and respect that I have to offer some small measure of support during this difficult time. Be well, dear friend. In deepest sympathy, Cynthia Russell

  4. Thinking of you Terri and your family. I hope that your memories of JD bring you all comfort during this time. Cassie Sweet

    • Prayers for JD and for your whole family. Please know that we are all eager to help in whatever way we can. Just let us know.

  5. I remember John’s kind and welcoming smile when he greeted me and my then-small daughter into his home in VA when we were vising between overseas posts. Even though he might not have remembered me or my daughter, much younger than him, from our common times in Ukraine, he welcomed as as family and spent the entire evening with us sitting and talking around a bonfire in his backyard. That wonderful memory will always stay with me. I remember him just like his family described him: warm, kind, welcoming, passionate, engaged, adventurous, intellectually curious, an avid hockey player, a great son, a great big brother, and a great friend. Dear John, let your beautiful soul rest in peace in the arms of the Lord. Your legacy and your memory will continue to live on. God bless you and your wonderful and loving parents, sister and family you left behind. Love and prayers, Margaret and Natalia

  6. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you and the family this week. JD news were always a part of our conversations and grew to know him through your constant updates. Your love and caring was always obvious and it shows in your loving obituary. Not sure how to express it but we grieve with you and hope that you can find strength in this time from your families, friends, and community.

  7. My family and I are deeply saddened by your loss. We considered John part of the family and will hold the time we got to spend with him forever in our hearts.

  8. I was very shocked and saddened to hear about your loss. John was a good friend to me and was someone I knew I could count on. I will keep him in my prayers.

  9. John, I remember you as a very well mannered, yet fun young person. You had given a great joy to your parents, your family and friends and everyone encountered. We all miss you but it helps to think you are resting with no longer any suffering of you have been experiencing. Rest In Peace and God bless you.

    • I am truly sorry for your loss. May God continue to strengthen you and your family through this time of bereavement.

  10. There is nothing that can ease your pain at this terrible time, but I do hope that you can soon find comfort in knowing that your friends are keeping you in their thoughts. If you need to get away for a few days, I have a guest room in the quiet countryside; you are always welcome.


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