Thomas M. Persil

July 11, 1960 ~ January 20, 2025
Born in:
Washington , DC
Resided in:
Manassas, Virginia
Thomas Marshall Persil, age 64, of Manassas, VA passed away peacefully on January 20, 2025 after a brave battle with brain cancer.
Tom was born in Washington, DC on July 11, 1960. He attended Robinson High School and was an Eagle Scout. He graduated from Virginia Tech with a major in Computer Science and was hired by IBM in Poughkeepsie, NY upon graduation, where he met Gale (Rucinski) Persil, mother to children Matthew and Erika.
Tom worked as a Unix Administrator for Geico for over 30 years, retiring in 2023. His generosity was equal to his love of music – it knew no bounds. He travelled the world attending music festivals and making great friends. He first picked up a guitar as a teen and never put it down, always enthusiastic to entertain guests at any event he held or attended. He was a certified ski instructor and would rarely miss annual ski trips to Vermont or Colorado. He was also a black belt in Taekwondo and Uechi-ryu karate.
Tom was fluent in German and took a deep interest in the genealogy and history of his family. He was also an accomplished beer enthusiast and used an app to log and rate over 1,100 unique beers.
He is survived by his children, Matthew Persil of Oakton, VA and Erika Persil of Manassas, VA, his father, Herbert G. Persil of Fairfax, brothers Christopher (Shelly) Persil of Fairfax, John (Amy) Persil of Herndon, his sister Sarah Persil of Yellow Spring, WV, and nieces Mellissa, Erin, Emily and Jacqueline and nephew Stephen.
He was preceded in death by his mother, Blythe (Cadwell) Persil and brother, Stephen More Persil.
Visitation will be held from 1:00 PM to 3:00 PM, Sunday, January 26th, at Money and King Funeral Home, located at 171 Maple Ave W, Vienna, VA 22180.
A funeral mass and burial service will be held at St. Mary’s of Sorrows Historic Church located at 5612 Ox Rd, Fairfax Station, VA 22039 at 11:00 AM Monday January 27th. A reception will follow immediately after the funeral at St. Mary’s Hall, located adjacent to the church. Funeral arrangements are being handled by Money and King Funeral Home.
Any and all who knew and loved him are welcome to attend any part of his celebration of life.
Nothing is expected, but in lieu of flowers memorial donations may be given to Save The Music Foundation. https://www.savethemusic.org/
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Visitation: January 26, 2025 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm
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171 W. Maple Ave.
Vienna, VA 22180
703-938-7440
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It’s not that you were anyone’s best friend, it is that you were/are the BEST friend. You were always kind, loving, generous to any and everyone who crossed your path.
I know you are in peace but, I seriously doubt you are ‘resting’. You showed up wherever God took
you, ready, willing and able to accept whatever He has next for you.
I will NEVER say goodbye, my friend because I know we will meet again.
‘Friends are friends forever, if the Lord’s the Lord of them’.
Btw, I’ll keep an eye on Buster… he’s a good guy and I’ll make sure we stay in touch and help each other through this terrible grief.
I love you, ‘Buuuddy’ always and forever
r i p .. tom .. we met us at several ctte and had good times .. i wish you good times .. there where you are .. 😊
I got to know Tom just a bit at various music festivals. I wish I had more time to know him better. He left a very joyous impression. He will be missed by many. May his memory be a blessing.
Your support of our family was also second to none, attending the funeral of my mother (who you called mom as well), and not leaving Richard’s bedside as he lost his battle to cancer. (And yes, we all know he was probably waiting for you to arrive and immediatley handed you a cold one while taking you around to show you the lay of the land and where to hear the greatest music.)
Tom you were one of a kind, a unique and amazing individual who made an impact on all that were lucky enough to cross your crazy, always smiling, random German spoken moments, path.
Vorerst Lebe wohl, Freund.
I loved you from the day we met, and continue to love you now.
When I die
when my coffin
is being taken out
you must never think
i am missing this world
don’t shed any tears
don’t lament or
feel sorry
i’m not falling
into a monster’s abyss
when you see
my corpse is being carried
don’t cry for my leaving
i’m not leaving
i’m arriving at eternal love
when you leave me
in the grave
don’t say goodbye
remember a grave is
only a curtain
for the paradise behind
you’ll only see me
descending into a grave
now watch me rise
how can there be an end
when the sun sets or
the moon goes down
it looks like the end
it seems like a sunset
but in reality it is a dawn
when the grave locks you up
that is when your soul is freed
have you ever seen
a seed fallen to earth
not rise with a new life
why should you doubt the rise
of a seed named human
have you ever seen
a bucket lowered into a well
coming back empty
why lament for a soul
when it can come back
like Joseph from the well
when for the last time
you close your mouth
your words and soul
will belong to the world of
no place no time
– Rumi
We would like to extend our deepest sympathy to the entire Persil family.
Tom will remain in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.
Ariela, Leah and Marc Stern
My thoughts are always with you and your family.
I met Tom in Boy Scouts, where like everywhere else, he excelled. He became an Eagle Scout. He and his family visited me in Alaska, and we hung around the fire chatting up old times. But more than that, he was the best friend you could ever ask for. I am unable to make it today or tomorrow, I am sure he knows why. A mutual friend will be there, and maybe I can touch base with a few of his other friends at that time. RIP, Tom. Missed greatly already.
I would remember Tom forever for his friendliness, leadership and knowledge of history. Rest in peace, Tom. You will be missed, Tom.
I pray to Bhagwan Ganesh to give strength to your family for passing through this tough time.
I first met you at the Uechi-Ryu Karate Dojo. My first impression of you was, “What a kind person, radiating warmth and compassion in every aspect of your being.” You were always someone who spoke kindly and thoughtfully, always considering others.
You had a remarkable talent for finding the positive side of any situation and joyfully sharing it with those around you. Even after you fell ill, when we visited you, you never spoke of your struggles. Instead, you would say, “I am so blessed,” and share stories about the wonderful times you had with your family. Seeing you then reminded me once again of your incredible strength and the depth of your love.
Whenever I think of you, your smile and sense of humor are the first things that come to mind. Your gentle voice, and how you would warmly greet Matt-San at the dojo with a hug and the words, “How are you, my son?” overflowed with affection. Every time I saw it, it warmed my heart as well.
Thank you, Tom-San. Your presence is etched deeply in our hearts and will continue to live on. May you rest in peace.
Tom was undoubtedly one of the kindest individuals I’ve ever met. It showed in everything he did and radiated in the way he carried himself. His unwavering kindness and selflessness by example is the lesson from him that I will carry with me from now on. On top of that, he was a fellow pun/dad joke afficionado. To me, this made him and even rarer individual that elevates him above the rest. God Bless you Tom. I’ll cherish the memories, and I’ll miss you and all the wonderful dad jokes you brought to the table.
We want to share our deep condolences to his family.
It was an honor knowing Tom, and training with him in Uechi Ryu. I will miss his sense of humor and his welcoming spirit whenever I visited the dojo. May his blessed memory bring you comfort.