Wilbur Henry Walther

wilbur walther

January 21, 1926 ~ August 3, 2013

Wilbur Henry Walther, 87, died on August 3 in Fairfax, Virginia. Wilbur was born on January 21, 1926, in Jefferson City, Missouri. He grew up in Jefferson City, the third of four children of Wilbur Richard Walther and Christine Marie Walther (Bruegging).

Wilbur worked from the time he was 12 years old. His first job was as a newspaper delivery boy. In high school, he worked on an ice truck, delivering ice to households. After graduating from St. Peter High School in 1943 at the age of 17, Wilbur enlisted in the U.S. Navy.

He served in World War II aboard the USS Carina, a Pacific supply ship, and attained the rating of Petty Officer, First Class. While in the combat waters off Okinawa in 1944, the Carina was successfully rammed by a Japanese suicide boat. Wilbur, who was working on the bridge at the time, was later commended for collecting the ship's vital records before boarding his lifeboat (on the order to abandon ship).

After the war, Wilbur studied Civil Engineering at the University of Missouri, Columbia, and took a job as an engineer with the State of Missouri Public Service Commission. He married Agnes Marie Rackers of Jefferson City in 1949.

When Wilbur took a job in Washington, D.C., in 1956, he and Agnes moved to northern Virginia with four children. Wilbur worked at the U.S. Department of Agriculture, for the Rural Electrification Administration (REA). REA assisted rural electric and telephone companies in providing electric and phone service to rural areas that were not being served by established utilities. Wilbur retired from the federal government after 30 years of service.

While living in Virginia, Wilbur and Agnes had four more children and eventually settled in Vienna, where Wilbur lived for 42 years.

Wilbur was very active in his church. He was a communicant of Our Lady of Good Counsel Parish (OLGC) since its founding, and a charter member of the Knights of Columbus, Santa Maria Council, serving as Grand Knight in the 1970's. He served in the Usher Ministry at OLGC Parish for over 42 years.

Wilbur was active in the community, as well. He was a member of American Legion Post 180 for over 50 years. In his retirement, he spent many enjoyable seasons playing softball with the Northern Virginia Senior Softball league.

Wilbur thrived among people, and he loved to have a good time. He loved young children and telling corny jokes. He was a perennial optimist. He enjoyed gardening, growing flowers and tomatoes or just strolling among his flowers and shrubs in the evening.

He especially loved music. He played the violin as a child, and he enjoyed many kinds of music as an adult - from classical to country. He put his engineering skills in service to his love of music when he built a stereo receiver and turntable. He was known for playing popular tunes on his harmonica - he could play almost anything by ear.



For the past five years, Wilbur has lived at The Virginian Retirement Community in Fairfax, where he enjoyed the social atmosphere and made many new friends. He received exemplary care at The Virginian and was very fond of all the attentive caregivers, for which his family is very grateful. The family would also like to thank Hospice for the special care they provided as well.

Wilbur and Agnes were married for 51 years. Wilbur was pre-deceased by his wife, Agnes, his brothers, Donald and Jerome (Jerry), his sister, Elizabeth Frye (Betty Ann), and his granddaughter, Lauren Tsai.

He is survived by eight children(spouses): Paula Tsai (Van), Deborah Rohloff (Richard), John Walther (Sandy), Ronald Walther (Toni), Linda Cashion (Robert), Thomas Walther (Julie), Mark Walther, and Mary McCune (Timothy).

He is also survived by eleven grandchildren: Michael Tsai, Geoffrey Tsai, Katherine Rohloff, Danielle Walther, Jennifer Walther, Daniel Walther, Brandon Cashion, Heather Walther, Lillian Walther, Spencer McCune and Connor McCune.

Visitation will be held on August 8th, 2 pm to 4 pm and 6 pm 8 pm at Money & King Vienna Funeral Home, 171 West Maple Avenue, Vienna, VA. The funeral Mass will be held August 9th at 1 pm at Our Lady of Good Counsel Catholic Church, 8601 Wolftrap Rd., Vienna, VA. Interment will be at Fairfax Memorial Park. If desired, donations may be made to: OLGC-Ushers, 8601 Wolftrap Rd., Vienna, VA 22182, and Catholic Charities: Diocese of Arlington, 200 N. Glebe RD Suite 506, Arlington, VA 22203

Falls Church, VA 22044

Funeral Home:

Money & King Funeral Home

171 W. Maple Ave.

Vienna, VA

US 22180

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  1. Mark – I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time of mourning. Kristin

  2. Mark, I am so sorry for the loss of your father. I know he meant a great deal to you. I remember all those funny stories you told me about him. You and your family are in my prayers. Stay strong and know that we are all here for you. ~Kim~

  3. Mark – I am praying the blessings of the Lord over you and your family, and that blankets of peace will cover you all. Remember, we are here for you. ~Claudette

  4. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Sending lots of love and positive thoughts your way.

  5. Mark, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember, God said He would never leave us, nor forsake us, trust in Him to get you through this time of loss. If you need anything please let me know. Praying for God’s perfect peace to rest in you and your family.

  6. Dear Mark & Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this difficult time. With our heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathies. Joe & Aylene Mafnas

  7. Mark, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of great loss. May god add his blessing to you during this time. I never met your dad, but the stories that you told about him described him as a great dad.

  8. Mary – I am so sorry for your loss. I know how much involved you were in your Dad’s care and know that you will miss him terribly. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time and may the Almighty God give you all the strength to bear his loss.

  9. Mary: I share your sorrow at the passing of your dear father. He must have been a special man, in order to have a daughter with such compassion and a cheerful spirit. I’m sure that he was and is grateful for your service to him in his twilight years. He is now in a place of no sorrow or pain and he will always have a special place in the hearts of those who knew him best.

  10. Mary and family: Please accept my empathy and condolences concerning the loss of your father. I read the beautiful obituary written here, and can understand what a tremendous positive impact this gentle man must have had on so many people’s lives. I wish I could have met him…my heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you all.

  11. While I did not have the honor of meeting Mr. Walther I do have the priviledge of knowing his daughter Mary a strong, kind, and outstanding person. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  12. Mark: I am sorry to hear of the passing of your father. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  13. Mark, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. May you find peace and comfort through family, friends and those closest to you. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.

  14. Mary, Just two weeks ago you were telling us some pretty amazing stories about your Dad. He will be missed. You are in our thoughts.

  15. We are saddened by the loss of our good friend, Wilbur and we are sure he is now with God in heaven. Wilbur will be greatly missed by so many friends. Respectfully, James J. and Grace Ann Kennedy

  16. Wilbur was Dukie’s (my dog) and my amazing friend at The Virginian. We both loved to sing along with him when he played his harmonica. Wilbur was one of a kind and will forever be missed! May heaven enjoy this fine man and his great talent! Terry and Dukie


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