Joseph A. Stephens
May 14, 1980 ~ May 26, 2019
Joseph Aaron Stephens, 39, of Fairfax, VA, passed suddenly on May 26th, 2019.
Joseph grew up in Fairfax, the son of Robert Luke Stephens and Janie Stephens Owens.
Joseph was proceeded in death by his grandparents and father. He is survived by his daughter and son, Sydney Marie and Aydan Luke Stephens, sisters Tiffany Epley and Samantha Stephens, step-sisters Sara Lewis and Rachel Beekman, mother and step-father, Janie and Richard Owens, and several aunts, uncle, nephews, niece and cousins.
Joseph worked at the McShin foundation (a recovery community organization) and in printing, after living with his own substance use disorders for many years. He was a drummer and loved music. He was a true and lovable spokesperson for recovery, advocating at the local, state and national levels, always mindful to reduce stigma associated with substance use disorders. Joseph helped many people find recovery. His efforts saved many lives.
The memorial service will be held at 4pm on Sunday, June 2nd, at Money & King Funeral Home in Vienna, VA.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a contribution to the McShin Foundation (mcshin.org) in Joseph’s memory so his efforts may continue to heal families and save lives from substance use disorders.
Joseph grew up in Fairfax, the son of Robert Luke Stephens and Janie Stephens Owens.
Joseph was proceeded in death by his grandparents and father. He is survived by his daughter and son, Sydney Marie and Aydan Luke Stephens, sisters Tiffany Epley and Samantha Stephens, step-sisters Sara Lewis and Rachel Beekman, mother and step-father, Janie and Richard Owens, and several aunts, uncle, nephews, niece and cousins.
Joseph worked at the McShin foundation (a recovery community organization) and in printing, after living with his own substance use disorders for many years. He was a drummer and loved music. He was a true and lovable spokesperson for recovery, advocating at the local, state and national levels, always mindful to reduce stigma associated with substance use disorders. Joseph helped many people find recovery. His efforts saved many lives.
The memorial service will be held at 4pm on Sunday, June 2nd, at Money & King Funeral Home in Vienna, VA.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a contribution to the McShin Foundation (mcshin.org) in Joseph’s memory so his efforts may continue to heal families and save lives from substance use disorders.
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I met Joseph in the fall of 2017 and we became friends right away. Over the last year and a half he became one of my closest and dearest friends. As such, he was a rare treasure- and I will never forget him. Joseph was kind and warm, generous, and so funny. His ability to make anyone feel comfortable was a gift. His laughter was infectious. He loved music and was a talented musician himself. My family loved him as well. We had the privilege of him joining us for some holiday celebrations last year. The Saturday after Christmas, my whole family gathered around and watched an episode of Shark Tank featuring Joseph’s sister Samantha. He was so excited and proud of her, and we were all very impressed. He spoke fondly of everyone in his family frequently. It was evident how much he admired his mother and sisters. As for his beautiful children, Sydney and Ayden, I can say with absolute confidence that I have never met a prouder father. He loved going to Ayden’s basketball games at every opportunity, and hearing his daughter sing and play ukulele brought him such joy. Joseph, you were our best friend. Ryan and I love you and we will never ever forget you. With love and my deepest condolences, Allison Tanner
I’m glad he made a impact on you life he was my father. I know he enjoyed me balling out on the courts. and jamming with Sydney on his drums and her ukulele. hope you are doing well means a lot you could put something up for him.
Our deepest sympathy to Joseph’s family. He will be missed by so many, and our hearts ache for your loss. Joseph never met a stranger. He could light up an entire room with his beautiful smile. He loved his family so much and burst with pride when talking about his children. We have been blessed by his friendship and he will always remain in our hearts. May you find comfort and peace during this time of great sadness. Randy and Joy
I’m sorry to hear about the loss of your loved one. When someone we love dies, it’s natural to want to see that person again. God promises us that He will comfort us in our trials if we go to him in prayer. 2 Corinthians 1:3 calls him the God of all comfort. I’d like to share with y’all this link that shows 12 steps on coping with grief that is good for sharing. I have personally found this very comforting and I hope y’all do as well. https://www.jw.org/finder?wtlocale=E&docid=102018086&srcid=share
I wish we could have gone to the concert that day. They have a new album and this song is yours
Almost your bday. Mine too. Aidens too. The world got a bit dimmer after you left us. See you on the other side. We will sing Graceland and Mrs Potters Lullaby together. Love you always.