Fredric C. Landau

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Fredric Carl Landau, of Oakton, VA, passed away in his home on August 4th, 2021. Fred was born in Paterson, New Jersey on September 24th, 1949 to Sam Landau and Celia Landau (née Hammer). He is survived by his wife Lydia Tutwiler, son Alex Landau, brothers Bill and Howard, and lots of loving family.

Fred grew up in New Jersey and attended American University where he achieved a degree in political science and met some of his closest friends with whom he kept in touch throughout his entire life. He also developed a passion for social justice and was proud of fiercely advocating for civil rights and for peace. Fred was deeply moved by the revolutionary change of the 60s and 70s and his involvement filled his life with purpose.

Fred enjoyed surfing, driving long distances across the country (and to Mexico!), and listening to a wide variety of music, from the Beach Boys to Celtic Woman. He owned a bike shop for many years before spending the rest of his career working with computers at Verizon. Fred passed his technical expertise on to his son Alex who now works as a software engineer. Fred loved his son very much and raising him was one of Fred’s most cherished experiences. He would brag about Alex at whatever chance he got, and kept each one of Alex’s report cards going back all the way back to Kindergarten.

He also deeply loved his wife Lydia, who cared for him through sickness and health. He was a devoted husband who considered Lydia his rock. She filled his life with joy, and together they traveled, raised a son, and thrived. She was a friend, a partner, a caregiver, and a piece of his soul. Fred often said that without Lydia he would not have made it through his medical issues. Fred did suffer through many medical issues.

He beat cancer three times, survived a heart attack, and dealt with myriad difficulties. His life was not painless, but the experience of raising his son, spending time with his extended family, and loving (and being loved by) his wife elevated his soul. Fred was tough; he was a survivor, and a role model for others in his life who dealt with illness. He had a warm heart and exuded a gentle kindness to everyone he met, and his friends and family will miss him greatly.

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  1. The Owners and Staff at the Money and King Funeral Home, wish to express our sincere sympathy to you. It is our hope that we may be able to make a difficult time more bearable. Please feel free to call us anytime as we are always available to you. Bob Gallagher Funeral Director

  2. Fred and I go back a half-century. We were floor mates at American University, along with a group of guys that have stayed in touch ever since. Fred was the glue that held us together. He was a special man and a good friend. There was no question that he was a survivor, but you rarely heard him talk about his several health challenges. Fred was the embodiment of a human being that’s lived through the worst that life can throw at you and come out the other end a positive, caring, and decent person. While we only saw each other periodically, there was a bond the kind of which only happens with a few good souls. Fred was the brother that I never had, and a piece of him will remain with me till the end of time. Peace and love, Fred

  3. I am deeply saddened by the loss of Fred. He was a mentor and friend to me. I worked with Fred for over a decade. Throughout my time working with him, he showed me nothing but kindness. He always brought energy and light to our team. I was inspired by his passion and work ethic. To this day, my coworkers and I reminisce about our time working with him. May he rest in peace. He will be missed dearly. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

  4. Rest In Peace to a former co-worker and friend. I will always remember the hundreds of hours on conference calls we’ve had along with others. Your knowledge and wisdom has impacted us in many ways. You will be greatly missed. Thank you, Fred for the years we have worked together.

  5. Skyline Drive, Fred was always there, despite any bad weather, to hang out, hike, and picnic with family. I will hold you in my heart forever, Fred.

  6. Sending our heartfelt condolences. Freddy will surely be missed by everyone. He was a wonderful man. Felice & Dennis

  7. Dear Lydia, and family, although I never met your husband, I am certain he was a kind and special person as I read these comments. I am very sorry for your loss. May you cherish many fond memories. Bob MacMurdo


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