Raymond C. Cavanagh
July 25, 1942 ~ January 17, 2024
Born in:
Evergreen Park, Illinois
Resided in:
Fairfax, Virginia
Raymond Charles Cavanagh, 81, of Vienna, Virginia, passed away on January 17, 2024.
Ray was born on July 25, 1942 to Raymond and Jane Cavanagh in Evergreen Park, Illinois. After graduating from St. Ignatius high school (Chicago) in 1960, he went on to study mathematics at the University of Notre Dame. After graduating in 1964, he attended the University of Maryland at College Park, where he received his PhD in math, and, more importantly, met his future spouse, the beautiful fellow math student Eileen Bleeg. Ray and Eileen went on to have two children, Sharon Cavanagh Edelmann and Maura Cavanagh Burke.
Ray started his career at BBN, where he became an expert in the mathematics behind underwater acoustics and launched a career on that topic. He spent the majority of his work life at SAIC supporting anti-submarine warfare and later the Marine Mammal Protection Act. Ray was way ahead of his time in the 1980s with the installation of a full-on napping couch in his office, as well as with edgy office party song parodies accompanied by the Rayettes.
Ray was a brilliant, sharply witty, and eccentric guy who lived in a world swirling with music, comedy, and math in a way that thrilled him and delighted the crowds. An accomplished pianist, guitarist, banjo guy, and heavy kazoo guy, Ray brought the party. If Ray was there, fun was on tap. Song parodies rolled off his tongue, with local hits like “Take Me Home, Carrhill Road” and “She was Just Sevent-ee”. SNL and Seinfeld were hot topics. You might be lucky enough to get the short lecture on a topic like Fermat’s Last Theorem (“baby math”) or his scientific expedition to the Arctic (“You sweat, you die”) or how he entertains his raccoon pal Rocky (with rides on a little remote-control car under the deck) or how he was involved in Vienna-based FBI spy Robert Hanssen’s capture (he wasn’t).
Most of all, Ray adored his wife, kids, and grandkids (“Pops” to them), and wasn’t afraid to express it. And although he ended up being a Virginian, his five younger siblings in Chicago and their families were of core importance to him. The hilarious stories of growing up as the “small” family (with only six kids) on the South Side of Chicago are still repeated by this group, often stretching a party exit by 30 minutes. Of course, Eileen was always THE BEST. In retirement, he claimed to be writing “the great American musical”, and we were all going to be his stars. And in a way, we were.
Ray was predeceased by his parents, Raymond and Jane Cavanagh. He is survived by his wife of 56 years, Eileen Bleeg Cavanagh; his daughters Sharon Edelmann (spouse Paul, children Jackson, Thomas, and Claire) and Maura Burke (spouse Joseph, children Ian and Jed); his siblings Margaret Maher (Jack), Robert Cavanagh, Kathy Niekrasz (Mark), Tim Cavanagh (Chris), and Nancy Foster (Mark); and 13 wonderful nieces and nephews (Kathy, John, Maureen, Kara, John, Julie, Dan, Jane, Kathleen, Julie, Jim, Erica, and Karin).
A funeral service will be held on Friday, February 16th, 2024 at 11:00am at Saint John Neumann Catholic Church at 11900 Lawyers Rd, Reston, VA. A reception will follow at the church.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to S.O.M.E. (So Others Might Eat) at https://some.org/
Services
Memorial Mass of Christian Burial: February 16, 2024 11:00 am
St. John Neumann Catholic Church
11900 Lawyers Road
Reston, VA 20191
703-860-8510
The Owners and Staff at the Money and King Funeral Home, wish to express our sincere sympathy to you. It is our hope that we may be able to make a difficult time more bearable. Please feel free to call us anytime as we are always available to you.
Bob Gallagher
Funeral Director
With much love and the deepest appreciation for Ray as a dad, husband, uncle, extended family member, and sharer of many gifts.
my deepest condolences to each of you… what a life he lived 💙 May there be many memories shared that bring smiles during this time.
Ray brought joy and allegria to everyone. He bought us all tiaras for Christmas once to bring us joy. To me I knew his joy when I would come for dinner and we would laugh and laugh. He insisted on my watching the “Big Night” otherwise I could not truly be Italian! Now when I play his piano, I hope he hears me.
Fran
Ray/Dad/Pops –
You devoted husband, loving father, and dear friend…we already miss your smile, humor, and smarts. Your songs are in our hearts.
He was a legend and we admired him in so many ways. We miss him and are grateful to have his stories, jokes and music reminding us of happy times together. Sending lots of love to Eileen, Sharon, Maura and the rest of the family.
Oh my, so many remembrances. I always relished my time with him. He was so knowledgeable and so funny. I remember a dinner at The Inn at Little Washington; Ray pulled out his Kazoo and started playing. We were embarrassed until we realized the others in the restaurant were enjoying him. I still have the kazoo Ray gave me. Rest in peace Ray, you will be missed.
Rest in Peace cousin Ray. I will never forget the Thanksgiving we cleared the tables out of the living room and you taught all us cousins the ‘twist’. “You just pretend you step out of the shower and grab your towel with both hands….and dry off your backside!”…. best dance instructions I ever received. Thanks for the smiles and laughter of our childhood.
Love to Eileen and family, Mugs and Mark
Vito J. Florimonte
Vienna, Va.
Uncle Ray was the best uncle. He was always welcoming. He wrote songs where we could all sing along for family occasions: birthdays, weddings, anniversaries. He told bad jokes and funny stories. He quoted Big Night, Seinfeld, and SNL. He welcomed my daughter into our family with elephant trumpeting and kazoos, as he did with all the little ones. He adored his family unabashedly and wasn’t afraid to tell them. Any departure he punctuated with a “Love you, babe.” It was a real gift that he was my uncle. Love you, Ray. May you rest in knowing how much you are loved.
My deepest condolences. Sending love and light to the family.
I will never forget the tacky party, involving Ray, dental floss, and saltines.
Dear Eileen and family, There will never be anyone quite like Ray. Never forget those we love don’t go away. They walk beside us everyday, unseen, unheard, but always near, loved and always in your hearts. My deepest sympathy. God bless you all.
There is nothing in the world so irresistibly contagious as laughter and good humor; and that was you Ray! He never allowed us to miss the fun of living and working with our tight group of friends in our legendary group at SAIC. We will never forget you or stop loving you and your joy for life. Carla Ramseier
Goodbye Ray. To the group of us that worked and played together in the 70’s and 80’s Ray was one of the lynch pins. It was a good ride.
RIP Ray.
My big brother Ray is an inspiration and a hero! He was brilliant and hilarious and outstanding in everything that he did (mathematics, music, comedy, husbanding, fathering, brothering, and of course, being a “pops”-tacular grandfather). His expertise in “underwater acoustics” has provided me with hours of great listening in my bathtub. In his honor I’m listening to nothing but “The Smothers Brothers” for the rest of the month. And keeping the volume low in deference to the whales. I’m grateful to have had such an extraordinary man in my life!
Take comfort in knowing he is at peace.
So sorry to learn of Rays passing. Along with Joe Caspar we went from Notre Dame to sharing an apartment when we were in grad school at Maryland and where we met Eileen (the ND-St Marys connection helped.) They helped me a lot and I don’t know if i would have finished my PhD without the start I got with them. Definitely remember Ray playing the banjo and grooving on the Smothers Brothers. Glad to see that he had a great family and life. RIP Ray