Robert James Lorence, II
May 16, 1960 ~ January 6, 2008
Robert James "Bobby" Lorence, II of McLean, Virginia died on Sunday, January 6, 2008 at Fair Oaks Hospital. Devoted father of Robert J. Lorence, III; son of Robert and Joan Lorence; brother of Linda Critelli and her husband Stephen and loving companion of Marcy Payne. He was a senior program manager at Lockheed Martin, TSS for ten years. He loved his son, his family, his friends and his career. He lived a great life and friends affectionately called his "fun Bobby". Family and friends are invited to Bob's Life Celebration at Money & King Funeral Home, 171 West Maple Ave., Vienna, Virginia on Friday, January 11 from 2-4:00 P.M. and 7-9:00 P.M. Funeral services will be held on Saturday, January 12 at 11:00 A.M. at Vienna Presbyterian Church, 124 Park Street, NE, Vienna, Virginia. Interment Flint Hill Cemetery.
Funeral Home:
Money & King Funeral Home
171 W. Maple Ave.
Vienna, VA
US 22180
Funeral Home:
Money & King Funeral Home
171 W. Maple Ave.
Vienna, VA
US 22180
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Wow, what can you say about someone who it is impossible to say goodbye to? A force of nature who changed my life forever in so many positive ways. I met Bobby at a bar (surprise!), Clyde’s in Reston, and foolishly fell for his younger friend. I finally got it right and realized Bobby was the right man for me. Even after we divorced, he was still the right man: a best friend, a loving guardian to our Jack Russell Terrorist, confidante, protector, fixer of things, family member. He never quit. I will cherish every memory, good and bad. He loved his son and family, he loved his friends, he loved me, and I will never, ever forget him.
Bob was truely one of a kind. He worked hard and partied even harder. A world traveler, he lived his life to the fullest. His love for fast cars and his search for the endless party was second only to his love for his family and friends. As his friend, there was nothing he wouldn’t do for you. As a manager, Bob hired me over 25 years ago, teaching me the skills I needed to suceed in the workforce. Bob was my friend, my boss, and my mentor. I am grateful for being part of his life and a better person for knowing him. Rest in peace Bobby.
Bobby was my first “boyfriend”, holding hands on the bus in 7th grade. Reconnecting several years ago along with other ’78 graduates of Langley High Scholl was some of the best times that I have had. No one could stop laughing when Bobby was around. We will remember you this way. We will continue to toast you at all future gatherings. We will miss you always.
What can I say. The man was great in every way. As a mentor a friend and guide, he will be missed greatly. Rest in Peace my brother from another mother.
I met Bobby when I was in elementary school and was best friends with his sister Linda. I am so glad I was smart enough to reconnect with him in 2006. He was a generous, kind and loving man. He really knew how to treat people! Ringing in 2007 with him in NYC will always be one of my fondest memories. I will also always remember his trademark sayings: “I am ice cream and cake, everyone loves me” and “you aint right”. I will miss you Bobby, you were larger than life.
I met Bobby through the years via his sister Linda’s kind and frequent words of him. The love in Linda’s eyes when she spoke of Bobby is my memory of him. Love, Bernadette
Linda has always spoken in the most loving and affectionate terms about her brother, saying he was the male version of her. We knew him to be generous, intelligent, warm hearted, and adored by everyone who has had the great fortune to be a part of his life. The world is less bright today. April and Martin Chytil
Grew up in McLean and went to school with Bobby and Linda. Bobby and I played golf a few summers back at a Lockheed Martin Tournament and had a great time catching up. Very sorry to see him pass so soon. I know he will be greatly missed and always remembered. R.I.P.
I have never met Bobby…in person…but met him through the many stories Martha Covell Saunders shared with me. The most excellent time she had in New York and I heard about Bobby from Marcy on her visit to San Diego this summer. I can only imagine the loss you must all feel and I’m sorry I never got to meet him in person. The words of Billy Joel must ring true…”only the good die young”. Best regards, Maggie
Bob was HUGE in life. Bob was GINORMOUS with love. He was kind and generous with his time and favors. He would tell me, “Blue Sue, you call me anytime of the day or night, whatever you need, wherever you are, I’ll be thereâ€, and he was. He was my “big brother†and a fabulous friend. We had 14 great years of friendship and the way he called me “Baaaaa-lue Sue†will ring in my ears forever. My deepest sympathy to the Lorence family. Bob, you will be missed by me and so many others. I’ll cherish the memories until we meet again……with love and “blue-nessâ€.
As a co-worker at SAIC, I remember Bob as an outgoing, hard-working member of the SAIC Saudi-Navy Command and Control Program who was a friend to everyone, always cheerful, thoughtful and generous with his time. Bob had a very successful career and always made his Mom and Dad very proud. He will be missed by us all.
I am sad to see the obituary today of Bob Lorence. Even though I hadn’t seen him in about 27 years, I recognized his picture. He was a young guy, just finishing high school, when he served as a mailroom clerk and messenger for Page Communications in Vienna. I was a few years older and worked in HR and used to send him on errands to get visas at local embassies. Through all these years whenever I think of working at Page, I always think of that young guy’s intelligence and wit. He always had me in stiches doing impersonations of difficult embassy personnel. Condolences to the entire Lorence family and Ms. Payne.
Dearest Bobby, God must need a wonderful man to make everyone laugh; he sure has the best. You will be greatly missed. You were the kind of person who you meet once and you never forget how that person made you FEEL. You made Chris and I feel so welcome. You were so warm and so funny. You will always remain in our hearts. Love, Christopher and Michelle
Our hearts go out to Linda and her family. Please know that we are thinking of you all during this terribly difficult time. Bobby will remain with you in your hearts forever. Our prayers are with you.
Bobby I will always remember the time you came to our house. You brought little Bobby with you to see the reptiles that the “Snake Lady” brought to entertain the kids in the neighborhood while our grandson Austin was visiting from Texas. You helped the kids hold up the 16 foot python. You are so loved by your family. Shirley Leedy
Words cannot express how much I loved and will miss our “Fun Bobby”. He was always able to bring a smile to my face, and when I saw his name on my e-mails I always knew I would be laughing out loud. No one could have asked for a better friend and he will be missed forever. He will always be in our hearts. My most sincere condolences to Mr. and Mrs. Lorence, Linda, and Marcy.
My deepest sympathy to the family. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
I remember the beautiful little boy who came to visit us in Denver with his sister and mother in August, 1963. I grieve for your family, and pray the Lord will have his spirit to be with all in this time of sorrow.
Dear Bob,Joan,Linda & Steven, I am so very, very sorry for your loss. I only met Bobby a couple of times but I must say he was “the life of the party”. My family had a great time w/him at the wedding. My kids immediately starting refering to him as “fun Uncle Bobby”. Please know that my heart goes out to you and your family in this very difficult time. May He Rest In Peace!
I lost my “oldest” friend Sunday. Bobby was a huge part of my life since we met the summer before 3rd grade and most of my growing up memories include him and our close-knit gang. He asked me to marry him when we were about 10 and, though that was not to be, we loved each other always. We had drifted apart in recent years but I reached out to him a few months ago and, incredibly, received an e-mail from him on Friday which he signed “Love you always, Bobby”. I will cherish that note forever – as I will my memories of Bobby. I love you always, Shelley
Bobby: You will be sorely missed. What a great friend and fun guy to know. Once again, you bring us all back together. Rest in peace, friend.
We were just begining to know Bob. My sweet and beauitful sister in law already loved him and was so happy. He loves her and never let a day pass without letting her know.I am so glad that Bob loves Marcy so much and she loves him. I wish we could have known you longer and better. My deepest prayers for all of Bob’s loved ones. Pam and Doug McCracken
The friends and waters of the Potomac River will forever miss this fellow Boater. Bob was like the swirling currents of the river: We never knew which direction he would go. When I first met Bob, he and Taylor would tell me boating stories that I couldn’t believe. Then I had a chance to know this unforgetable Man, and realized all those adventures were true and only Bob could have lived them. Bob lived life to the fullest and will continue to live through us. We will him miss him dearly and remember him always…
Bob Lorence, I cannot put into words how much I will miss you. To even go one single day knowing that you aren’t there is more than I can bear the thought of. We shared so many wonderful memories, secrets and very deep love over the course of the last 10 years that can never be forgotten. Joan and Bob, your son was absolutely the product of the two of you, amazingly wonderful, loving, kind, caring, compassionate, intelligent, trusting, honest, . . . a good human being. Bob learned from the best, the two of you! Thank you for sharing your home, your love, your life, your son Bob with me and also for the 35 plus years of great love and friendship between the Carey’s and your family. God Bless!
I am very sorry to lose a very good friend, who was happy to help me when in need. I will always remember a great man.
Bob, Everyone whose life you touched is better for it. I regret we were only close buddies for seven years. It wasn’t long enough.You brought only good thoughts and feelings to me and Ellen, and we always enjoyed your company.I’ll never forget the great times we had together in New York, on your boat, and at my house. Miss you badly.That’s Right!
My sister Heidi brought Bob (B2), Bobby (B3), and his family into my life and the life of my family. What a great pleasure it has been to know Bob, and an honor to be so warmly embraced by his warmth, humor and kindness. He is truly missed. My heart goes out to Bobby and all his family. We grieve with you.
Bob, I will greatly miss your constant sense of humor that made even the worst of situations here at work bearable. Thank you for sharing your stories, your optimism, and good times on your boat. With fond memories and sincere condolences to the Lorence family.
As is evident in these postings, Bob touched so many lives and we are truly shocked and saddened at this loss. You are loved and will be missed greatly. Little Bobby, my heart aches for you. Your father loved you so much. Our deepest condolences to all — You are in our thoughts. Lea & Chris
Fun Bob, You are already sincerly missed and always brought light into any situation at work and/or outside of work. Although I only meet your wonderful son, but know of your family because of how well you talked about them. My hope and prayers are with you all as you go forward in his spirit.
Bob always had a story and was the life of the party. He was also the first to lend a helping hand when one was needed. He was a great person and a great friend. His memroies will live on. I am proud to have been able to know him.
I met Bob back in 2003 and had the opportunity to work with him on two separate Lockheed Martin projects. While he worked hard he always took a fun view of his job and his life. He spoke often of his son Bobby, who he idolized. Over the years, I heard stories about Bobby, Bob’s cars, and of course the “boatâ€. Bob was very fun to work with, and well liked and respected by those around him.
I met Bobby in Intermediate school back in McLean in 1972 and we became fast friends. He was always there for me when I needed him. We remained friends through our 20’s until I moved to Southern California. We had been talking all through this past summer and e-mailing, in fact, I just spoke to him last week! We were hoping to meet-up before our 30th reunion this summer. I will miss his fantastic dry sense of humor and most of all his favorite quote when he was irritated at me “Now listen here Missy”! To my little sister Linda, there are no words that I could say to comfort you I know but take comfort in the fact that we all loved him. I love you, your “Big Sister” Carol
Bob was a kind, wonderful person with a great attitude. He was a professional and will be a great loss to everyone that knew him as well as to our company. My sincere simpathy to all his family and may they have the faith to accept such loss. God bless them all!
I am still saddened by the going home of Bob. I know his family and especially his son Bobby are hit hard. There are no words I can say that will change anything, but as I feel fortunate and blessed to have met Bob and befriend him, I can only hope and pray for the family to endure this time of grief. Know now that Bob is in a better place and waiting with a smile until you meet again.
My daughters and I are heartbroken that we have all lost Mr.Bob. When my children were young and full of giggles we had so many wonderful weekends with Mr. Bob and little Bobby. From Water Parks to Amusement Parks to dinner at Bob’s condo we always had so much fun. I can still remember the ride to one of the Amusement Parks with Bob singing in the front seat next to me, little Bobby singing from his car seat and a few of my girls joining in. Bob was full of fun, laughter and love and his affection and commitment to little Bobby was always heartwarming. Bob always made everyone feel cared for, protected and loved. I know that Bob will spread his angel wings around his son and keep him safe and will never leave him. Bob will be in our hearts and memories forever.
I can’t believe you’re not here. Thank you for New Year’s Eve in NYC with the best of friends Fondest memories. Rest in Peace Bobby. You are the nicest person ever.
I met Bob in 1983 when we worked together at SAIC. Over a period of years, I enjoyed our friendship and his ability to instill a sense of fun and enjoyment in those around him while keeping a very high level of professionalism, especially on extended business trips to Saudi Arabia. My thoughts and prayers are with Bob Sr, Joan and the rest of his family and friends at this very difficult time.
My Brother Bobby was the BEST brother in the world! Sounds trite, but so true. He came to my rescue 100 times. Though he was known to be a prankster and a lot of fun, the truth is that he was a real family guy! He loved just relaxing at home, hanging out with his “cub” (his son) and just watching movies! He was the smartest man I knew, but what I know best is how he treated me and my folks…like gold. He had amazing taste in people and had a lot of beautiful friends. Thank you all for being so close to us and for showing up in our time of need! We’ve love it and we love YOU! Love, Linda (Bobby’s “baby sister” ha!)
Bobby was my dream come true…the best life partner. We had so many plans for 2008…getting married….making our home in McLean so we could be closer to our parents and B3…traveling to Thailand. My heart is absolutely shattered, but I know that Bob left me in good hands with his family and incredible circle of friends. I have a new sister in Linda and we are going to have a blast when that little boy comes into our lives. I love all of you and thank you for understanding that even though Bob and I were together for a brief time it felt like YEARS of happiness…yes, Bob got the most out of every aspect of life!!!
We lose a great man in you Bobby, My friend, My brother. After having an exceptional Christmas holiday, the promise of fresh and exciting opportunities with the New Year, and spending your last cheerful moments with your son Bobby, B3 “The Cube”, and new love of your life in Marcy, you peacefully slipped into a new life ever after… You have left us in the glow of your burning torch as a man who lived for lifes full adventure. If ever anyone should live their life, then they should take from your ambers and fan them with all their gusto to a roaring flame, and only then would we capture just a glimpse of what life was like with fun Bob around. Like a shooting star, you leave us wishing we were more prepared for your presence as you streaked through our lives in want for more of what life could offer. You were always living life “Big Like Buffalo” and moving “Fast Like Cheetah”. I will always tip my glass to you, My Friend, My Brother… Here’s to doing Mach One with your Hair on Fire! God’s Speed… Big Bob lives for ever in our hearts.
I just wanted to express my sympathy to the Lorence family for this sad and sudden loss. Although I’d only met Bobby a handful of times, I felt like I knew him well as I’ve been friends with his sister, Linda since 1983 and often heard from her about his adventures – the greatest of which started when his son was born – it has always been very obvious how much he loved his son. I also know how much Linda loved and looked up to Bobby II and I know how very much she’s going to miss her big brother. To his entire family and loved ones, wishing you comfort and peace. Love, Nola
I was shocked and saddened to hear about Bobby’s passing. It was just 2 years ago during Thanksgiving when I saw him after about 20 years! Linda and I have been friends since H.S and have managed to stay in touch over the years. It was hard to believe 20 years had passed since we saw each other last; it felt like old times…Bobby was always so easy to talk to. He still had the same magnetic smile and sunny disposition. We traded a few emails when I returned to Boston and then life just got busy. I was so happy to hear someone found him. It sounds like he was truly, deeply happy…I hope Bobby’s son, Linda and the Lorence family will take comfort in all the lovely memories they shared with Bobby…One of my favorite memories of Bobby was the Led Zeppelin concert in ’77/’78 . He was a blast! He definitely knew how to live life to the fullest. I will miss him. With my deepest sympathy, Susan
My love and sincerest condolences go out to the Lorence family. Knowing how close the family was and how much love there was between them, may that give them the strength in these tough days. I only knew Bobby in high school but I do remember how much laughter there was in the Lorence house. I can’t imagine a closer family. I’m sure his son is as wonderful as his father. Bobby was a gift to everyone and we should all hope to live our lives as happy as he did. My love and prayers are with you, Linda.
I first met Bobby in Jubail, Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. We both worked on a military defense project through the U.S. Navy. Bob was some of the first in Kingdom and set up quite a few of the comforts of home for the rest of us. When we both came back I ended up sharing a house with Bobby and Taylor Young in Sterling. We lived together for a couple of years. Some of the best times of my life. We were the only bachelor pad in a family sub division. We had all the toys and enjoyed playing hard. I can’t believe such a vibraint life has been cut so short. But will continue on enjoying life as Bob always did. I’ll miss you my friend. Peace be with you.
Please know you are in our prayers and thoughts. May you have a lifetime to share your memories of Bobby with one another.
Dear Linda, I am so sorry for you loss and grateful there was no suffering. I love you and I am thinking about you. Most Sincerely, Kenya
We are saddened to hear of Bob Jr.’s passing. Our condolences to Bob Sr. and the Lorence family.
I was shocked and am still saddened by the passing of what I considered to be a close friend although I didn’t have the pleasure of his friendship for very long. I think this is a testament to the kind of person he was…someone who treated you like a lifelong friend after knowing you for 10 minutes. I am proud to have known him and have been considered a friend and the deepest condolences to his family and friends. Tee em high Bobby
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Lorence and Linda, I am so sorry to hear this news. I am deeply saddened. Bob was my best friend while growing up in McLean. I have so many great memories of adventures we had there in the neighborhood. I have so many great memories of just being with Bobby at your home in Virginia. It was always fun to go to Bobby’s house. I still can’t believe this. Now I regret not staying in touch more regularly with Bob.
Dear Lorences, Just heard the news about Bobby from Lenny. Can’t even imagine what you must all be going through. My deepest sympathy to all the family. Ann